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Why Would You Want Your Friend To Reconcile With A Man Who Repeatedly Dishonored Her?

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Most of us are rejoicing over the fact that Tiny is pulling herself away from her husband T.I., for the simply fact that not only did he cheat on her (likely multiple times), he’s publicly disrespected the hell out of her, showing absolutely no remorse for his actions and, in my opinion, deciding to do the show so it could seem like he was the one who broke up with her–after she filed for divorce. Still, there is one friend who seems to want them to reconcile.

Tamar Braxton.

Now, as we reported yesterday and have known for some time, Tamar and Tiny are not on the best of terms right now. As far as we know the two who have been friends for nearly two decades fell out when Tiny supported their mutual friends for appearing on “The Real” after Tamar was fired.

Well, yesterday, in a very kind gesture, Tiny took to Instagram to wish Logan, her godson, a happy birthday.


T.I. used the opportunity to tell the two friends that they needed to put the diva sh*t behind them and make it work for the kids.

And Tamar followed up with an extensive post seeking reconciliation for both she and Tiny and Tiny and Tip.

Ya know I’ve been thinking although I don’t feel like social media is the best place to work out personal issues…sometimes it can be the most effective way to get your love ones attention. I love you guys and Tiny, you…since I was 19 years old. I would have never dreamed that NONE of us would be in this position. Against public perceptions we know it’s NOT because of that show or lies that paperback Toya has said or anyone else who has had something to say about the disagreement you and I have had… because it’s simply OUR personal disagreement. I love you and all my God babies (all the kids) with all of my heart and you know this. I also love your husband @troubleman31 because he is my family also. How about we ALL sit down and talk and declare our new Love and mutual respect for each other and I’ll pay for and sing at your new vowel renewal ceremony. Life is too short and I’m ok with ignoring single, miserable hateful friends who WANT to see you and I at odds and instigating feuds with you and your husband. How about we all come together let it all go and bring you two who were the closest to me and two people who share so much love TOGETHER lean on each other to bring things back together again. ♀️who said it will be easy but Love and forgiveness is easier than being mad and full of hate. So with that all being said @majorgirl I’m sorry for my part in the hurt and want to have my best friend AND her family Including all of our kids and TIP all back together again❤️

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I mean…ok. We’ll get to all of this later. But you will notice that in the midst of all this, she mentioned Toya Wright’s name. Why?

When she did, Toya responded with a post of her own that she eventually deleted. 

“Paperback Toya?? Really Bitch??! What does your non-sincere apology and fake ass public outreach have to do with me?? You are THE fakest bitch I know. You wrote all of that pathetic, attention seeking bullshit but you conveniently forgot to tell them why ur REALLY mad?? Speak up l…tell em why you and your so-called best friend of 19 years fell out. Why didn’t you tell them how petty you really are? What type of bitch gets mad because a friend posts a birthday message about another friend?? I have your answer tho ??the same petty ass bitch that got mad At EVERYONE who went on the real talk show that she was FIRED from. I’m sick of you popping off on everybody and then playing victim with yo over the top under the table ass. You talk shit about your own sisters! U a disrespectful, disloyal, jealous attention fiend. Your desire to be front and center and have all the attention even spilled over into to the church! People trying hear the Lord’s word and you want the people to watch u work! Fake ass praise! Fuck You all days and all ways Tamar!

Love always,

Paperback Toya?. My new book will be dropping in July!? #ihavetimetoday #iapologizetomyfollowers #shekeepplayingwithme #sometimethenolahavetocomeout”

Well…

First things first, for the life of me I cannot understand why a real friend, a friend who had likely watched you suffer in your marriage, would step forward to publicly advise you to stay with a man who dogged you on more than one occasion, for the world to see. If you watched Tamar on “The Real” or on “Braxton Family Values,” all of this seems to be real inconsistent with the advice she’s given and the stances she’s taken on such issues. But we don’t even have to get that deep into it, a blind man can see T.I. and Tiny need to be done. Not so much for the infidelity but for the fact that after she worked with him when he literally had nothing, held him and his children down when he went to prison… twice, after she never cheated on him while he was out.here. and after birthing his children, he still doesn’t respect her. She had to go. And I’ve come to that conclusion from what we know to be true. God forbid we touch on the years worth of rumors and hearsay, which might also be rooted in truth.

All of is a mess.

I have a couple of theories as to why Tamar came out with this post. One, Toya touched on. It’s for attention. She likely read the comments under Tiny’s post, saw that a couple of people wanted them to get back together and jumped on the bandwagon.

The other is more in depth and I won’t go too far into it but perhaps misery loves company. I’m sure the dynamic of Tamar and Tiny’s friendship was drastically different when she and T.I. were trying to figure things out. And I’m willing to bet that there’s a part of her that wants things to return to the way they were, the way she’s always known Tiny.

But honey, them days are over. And hopefully Tiny’s other friends will be happy that she’s moved away from a toxic situation.

Veronica Wells is the culture editor at MadameNoire.com. She is also the author of “Bettah Days.” You can follow her on Facebook and on Instagram and Twitter @VDubShrug.

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